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"Unexpected things in my married life" I would like to speak about the two unexpected things that occured in my married life. A lot of things happened to my husband I so far. Especially two incidents affected our life. When my husband and I tied the knot 14 years ago, we were happy as a clam, we couldn't imagine how many difficulties lied ahed us. The first difficulity came soon.My husband and I had wanted a child for a long time. After not having a child for a couple years,I went see a gynecologist.I found out I had disability with my ovary and I was really depressed.I went through a lot of treatments.Although we did whatever we could do,we never had a visit from the stork.I suffered from the side effects of furtility drugs.Finally we gave up treatments after several years. But most painful thing was not the treatment but the prejudice towards a couple who doesn't have a child. I wasn't able to break the spell that I didn't have a baby for a while. The second trial was that my husband's company went bankrupt.Three years ago November 17th 1997,his bank went into bankruptcy.It was a bolt out of the blue.When we knew it,we were so helpless and didn't know what to do.He had worked about 17 years for the bank very hard.I knew how mortified he was. When the banks sign disappered,we shed tears. Fortunately he managed to get a new job,we were very relieved. My husband will start his own business as an accountant from next year.It will be a challenge.If we had had children,or his former company hadn't gone bankrupt,we wouldn't have started our own business.I'm convinced I will be a big help. We are really happy to launch our own business at the same time the 21st century will begin. These incidents might have been tough for us. But we were able to understand each others pain more through these experiences.¡¡Whenever we face problems,we discussed and solved them.¡¡We have shred our joys and sorrows since we married. These difficulities gave us strength. The harder the trials were,the stronger our link became.
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